How you bring up the convo really depends on the couple and your usual dynamic around bedroom activities. Unfortunately, there's not a universal, one-size-fits-all way to approach the topic of pegging. So, as with any sexual behavior, communication and consent-for both the pegger and peggee-are key. Sexy time is all fun and games until someone surprisingly shows up harness-clad and ready to bang their partner's butt. So now that you're up to speed on all things pegging and its powerful pleasure, are you ready to strap on and get started? Here's everything you need to know before you and your partner start poking around (yes.pun intended): 1. In the case of pegging, many women get aroused by the idea and act of being dominant as well as "feeling alpha over the male while penetrating," Kort explains. Plus, as is true with any and all sexual acts, your mind plays a big role in your ability to climax. For many women, the dildo experience can be incredibly pleasurable as well, thanks to the continuous clitoral stimulation that happens during penetration and thrusting (between the base of the dildo and the vulva), says Joe Kort, PhD, a certified sex therapist in Royal Oak, Michigan. The result? An eruption of different orgasms that, per McBride, can be perceived as more intense. "the male G-spot." As with anal play in general, pegging can also stimulate the many erotic nerve endings in the anus and rectum. The prostate is a super-charged erogenous zone, a.k.a. When inserted into his anus, the dildo has the power to reach and massage this walnut-sized gland that sits between the base of a guy's penis and rectum. But that's not the only reason people are into this backdoor act.ġ5 Best Anal Sex Positions To Try, Novice Or Notįor men, it's all about the prostate. And it's this "flipping the script" situation that entices many peggin' partners, who might find breaking social norms erotic, per McBride.īottom line? Breaking taboo can be-and for many, is-sexy. Of course, everyone and anyone is welcome to suit up with a strap-on, but the term pegging in particular usually refers to a male (penis-bearing person) being penetrated by a female (vagina-bearing person).Īs such, pegging violates traditional gender scripts in which the woman is generally assumed to be the receiving partner, while the man is the inserting partner, explains Kimberly McBride, PhD, associate professor of Public Health at the University of Toledo, who's extensively researched anal sex. Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. For all those that might've missed such cultural moments (*raises hand*), let's begin with the basics. Nope and nope? Don't worry, I gotchu, girl. Sound familiar? Maybe you caught the quick reference in Deadpool or saw that infamous Broad City episode where Abbi Jacobson tries it out first-hand. But tbh, it's time to push these bad boys aside and give some much-deserved attention to a gender-norm-breaking, butt-boning, not-so-little act called pegging. When it comes to the wonderful world of butt stuff, a few popular practices have been hogging the spotlight (think: rim job, anal fingering).
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